It is hard to get everything arranged just the way we like it to so that we can be relaxed and content. Reacting to the heat, cold, noise, persons around you or conditions you are in can seem to be the answer, if only it weren’t so cold, if only these people weren’t being so load, if…… if only that obstacle were to go away, something better will take its place and then I will find contentment. Yet it is inevitable that there will be another obstacle that is hypothetically mak